You Handed It Off and Stopped Looking

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An owner I talked to had hired a marketing expert. Real credentials, real portfolio, somebody who knew the work. And their leads went DOWN!

The work itself was good… if you were running Nike. All impression marketing. Getting the name in front of people, nice-looking assets, nothing that asked a human being to do anything, and not executed all that well even judged on its own terms. For a school with a defined territory and a monthly enrollment number to hit, it was the wrong category of work.

The owner could not have told you any of that. They'd handed marketing off in one piece and stopped looking at it, so they had no way to evaluate the work and they evaluated the credential instead. The credential was excellent.

We built them a marketing plan and I told them the part they weren't going to enjoy: they had to quarterback it. Not do it. Quarterback it. Know what each activity was supposed to produce and check whether it did. Thirty days later they had 4x'd their leads.

Before that, they had decided the mistake was delegating.

Two ways to stop watching

Handing someone a system nobody trained them on isn't delegation, it's abandonment with a job title on it. And it teaches an owner exactly the wrong lesson about letting go, because the results really did get worse. The evidence seems to point right at delegation. What else would you conclude?

The second version looks like the opposite and lands in the same place. You take the thing back and do it yourself. That one gets applauded, and nobody in the history of business has been criticized for working harder.

Both are ways of not watching. You left, or you're too busy being the hands. And somebody doing the work is in a poor position to judge whether it's the right work.

The plates only need a touch

Picture the guy spinning plates on poles. Getting them all up there is enormous work. Every plate is a system in your business – enrollment, billing, staff training, retention calls, the marketing calendar, the facility. Starting one from a dead stop costs you real effort.

Keeping one going costs almost nothing. A touch. A few seconds at the right moment.

The whole thing is the interval. Be diligent about the input and about how often the input has to happen, and the total work is a fraction of what you spent getting the plates up. Miss the interval and you haven't saved anything, you've deferred it, and now you're rebuilding a system instead of touching one.

How often does each plate need a touch? Different answer every time, and do you actually know yours? Billing might want a monthly look. A newer staff member probably wants a weekly one. Anything you just changed needs eyes on it more often than something that's been running clean for a long while. You decide that per system, on purpose, before whichever plate wobbles loudest decides it for you.

What abdicating the books cost me

When I started my school I handed the accounting to somebody I trusted at the time. I understood the concepts. P&L, the categories, what the numbers meant. It wasn't my expertise, though, and I let that be my reason for staying out of it entirely.

After a few years there were thousands of dollars going out that did not need to go out. Not theft… just mismanagement, of the ordinary kind, and every dollar of it was something I'd have caught if I had been managing it better.

I took it over. Then I delegated it again fairly quickly, because me doing the books was never the answer either. What changed is that I've quarterbacked it 100% ever since. I see every transaction. Once a month… that's it, and it's efficient.

(Some of you are doing this weekly, or daily, and calling it oversight. Different problem, and it costs you in a different way.)

Without your finger on the pulse of all your systems, it will devolve into chaos. Not might. A well-run business only requires you to keep an eye on all of it, at a frequency high enough that you spot the problem BEFORE it becomes a problem.

A plate about to come down is visibly wobbly for a while first. Touch it then and it costs you a second. Let it hit the floor and you're rebuilding.

Four ways owners handle their staff

Employees are where I watch this play out most, because the training half and the watching half get separated all the time, and neither one works by itself. Four patterns.

They train once and assume it took. The new hire got a real orientation, they nodded, they seemed to have it. A while later the standard has drifted and nobody has touched it since. The plate got spun once, beautifully, and then left alone.

They train, then climb inside the work. Good intentions all the way down on this one. They're in it constantly, correcting, adjusting, re-explaining. They're stressed and they're stressing everybody who works for them, and the staff member never gets a clean run at anything. Too much input, applied too often, and the plate slides off the pole and takes the neighbors with it.

They never really train at all, then complain about the results. A few plates are spinning if the person arrived good. The rest are coming down and it's only a question of when!

They train, they hold regular staff meetings and trainings at whatever interval that system needs, and they have some way of noticing poor performance early enough to fix it. Just enough input. And they can see a plate wobble a LITTLE, back when the fix is one touch.

Which one are you? The fourth takes less of your week than the second does. It asks you to decide the interval in advance instead of reacting to whatever's loudest, and that's a calendar question more than a leadership one.

What the leadership research found

Across 626 correlations from 87 sources, transformational leadership came in at .44 and contingent reward at .39, with laissez-faire at −.37 (Judge & Piccolo, 2004). Laissez-faire is the technical name for the leader who has left the building.

The same analysis is much less flattering to the thing I'm recommending. Management by exception, in both its active and passive forms, was inconsistently related to the outcomes. Being absent is dependably bad. Monitoring, on its own, didn't dependably produce much of anything.

Management by exception in that model means stepping in when a deviation shows up, which is not the same animal as looking at a system on a schedule whether or not anything looks wrong. And monitoring with no training underneath it is supervision of a skill nobody built.

Skill loss runs from d = −0.01 immediately after training to d = −1.4 after more than a year of nonuse, across 189 data points from 53 articles (Arthur et al., 1998). Trained once and left alone is a decaying condition, and the decay is worse for cognitive, artificial and accuracy-based tasks than for physical and speed-based ones – which describes most of what you delegated to somebody.

The spacing research gives a partial answer to the interval question. Across 839 assessments in 317 experiments, the optimal gap between sessions grew with how long the material had to hold (Cepeda et al., 2006). That's verbal recall in a laboratory, not a business, and I'm using it as an analogy and nothing more. New systems and new people want a short interval. The interval can widen as the thing proves itself.

More watching is not the fix

The owner who climbs inside the work deserves better than being called a micromanager and waved off, because that risk is measurable.

Feedback improves performance on average (d = .41) across 607 effect sizes from 23,663 observations. And over a third of feedback interventions made performance WORSE (Kluger & DeNisi, 1996). Over a third! That's feedback itself, not bad managers.

Their account of why: feedback aimed at the person rather than the task drags attention onto the self, and performance follows the attention. You have worked for somebody like that, haven't you? They are in your business every day, and you stop thinking about the work and start thinking about them.

I'm not saying watch more. I'm saying watch at an interval, and look at what the system PRODUCED rather than at the person running it. Every transaction once a month is a look at the books. It's not a look at the bookkeeper.

What this looks like at your table

A manager and a direct report. You handed over the weekly client report months ago and you've barely read one since, because the early ones came back clean and you had other fires. That report is now whatever it has drifted into, and you'll learn the standard moved when a client mentions it. What did you owe that handoff? Not a review of every draft. One report a month, read against what the report is supposed to accomplish. That does not take long.

There's a prior question too. Does that person know what the report is FOR? An owner who can't evaluate the work has usually handed over the task and never handed over the objective.

An agency and a client. Same failure, money attached, and I've watched it from both chairs. The client hires the agency so they never have to think about marketing again, which is the pitch and also the problem. Nobody on the client side can judge whether the work is right, so they judge what shows up – volume, attractiveness, whether it arrives on time. All indirect. And the account team, sensing that nobody is really reading, drifts toward the work that's pleasant to produce.

Then the renewal comes up, the client looks at their pipeline, and they don't renew. The agency is blindsided. Honestly the client usually is too, because neither of them was watching what the activity was supposed to produce. An account lead who insists on a monthly number, with the client in the room, is protecting the renewal too.

The fix in both rooms is the one I gave that school owner. Direct ROI, not indirect. Blog posts and brand work and a beautiful monthly report are all real work, and if nobody can connect them to the number you hired for, you're confirming the plates are still up there, not that they're the right plates.

And run it off a plan. That owner's turnaround didn't come from them getting more involved in marketing… it came from a three-month plan with named activities, so quarterbacking meant checking real things against a document instead of asking how it's going.

Your move

Make a list of the systems in your business. Just a list. Enrollment. Billing. Staff training. Retention. Marketing. Facility. Whatever yours are, and be reasonably complete, because the one you forget to write down is usually the one already on the floor!

Put a date next to each one: the day you personally last looked at what that system PRODUCED. Not the day you thought about it, and not the day you asked somebody how it was going. The day you looked at an output.

How many can you date? Count the ones you can't. That's your number, and it's a fair measure of how many plates you aren't actually spinning. Reply and tell me what it came out to, because I'm curious whether it lands the same way outside a school.

Then take the worst one and set the interval. On the calendar, at whatever frequency that system needs, and pick the shortest interval you will actually keep. Mine for accounting is monthly and has been for years. Yours will be different per plate, and the number matters much less than the fact that it exists and repeats.

There's a line I've kept on my office wall for a long time. A ship is safe in the harbor, but that's not what ships are for. (The line is John A. Shedd's, from 1928.) It's the right idea about people, and it leaves out the part about who is steering.

If you want to think out loud about which plate is about to come down, reply to this or come talk to me. The version of this I wrote for parents, which is where the whole line of thinking started, is here. If the real problem is that your people were never trained properly to begin with, the training side is here. And if you recognize yourself in the owner who keeps taking the work back, that one has its own article.

References

Arthur, W., Jr., Bennett, W., Jr., Stanush, P. L., & McNelly, T. L. (1998). Factors that influence skill decay and retention: A quantitative review and analysis. Human Performance, 11(1), 57–101. https://doi.org/10.1207/s15327043hup1101_3

Cepeda, N. J., Pashler, H., Vul, E., Wixted, J. T., & Rohrer, D. (2006). Distributed practice in verbal recall tasks: A review and quantitative synthesis. Psychological Bulletin, 132(3), 354–380. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.132.3.354

Judge, T. A., & Piccolo, R. F. (2004). Transformational and transactional leadership: A meta-analytic test of their relative validity. Journal of Applied Psychology, 89(5), 755–768. https://doi.org/10.1037/0021-9010.89.5.755

Kluger, A. N., & DeNisi, A. (1996). The effects of feedback interventions on performance: A historical review, a meta-analysis, and a preliminary feedback intervention theory. Psychological Bulletin, 119(2), 254–284. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.119.2.254

Shedd, J. A. (1928). Salt from my attic. Mosher Press.